What Every Man Needs to Know Before and After a Prostate Procedure
If you're a man in your your 40s, 50s, 60s or beyond, chances are you've either thought about prostate health or have already spoken with your doctor about it. Whether you're facing a prostate biopsy, prostatectomy, or another urological procedure, it's normal to feel uncertain or overwhelmed. But knowledge is power — and preparation is everything.
In this blog, we’ll walk through what men need to know before and after a prostate procedure — from understanding the common types of treatments to managing life afterward, including common but often undiscussed challenges like bladder leaks and emotional recovery.
Understanding the Prostate and Common Procedures
The prostate is a small gland located just below the bladder and in front of the rectum. Its job is to produce seminal fluid that helps nourish and transport sperm. As men age, the prostate can become enlarged (a condition called BPH — benign prostatic hyperplasia), infected, or develop cancer.
Here are a few common procedures related to the prostate:
Prostate Biopsy: A diagnostic test used to determine if cancer cells are present.
TURP (Transurethral Resection of the Prostate): A surgical procedure to relieve symptoms caused by an enlarged prostate.
Prostatectomy: A surgery to remove the prostate gland, often used as treatment for prostate cancer. This can be done robotically (robot-assisted laparoscopic prostatectomy) or via open surgery.
Radiation or Hormonal Therapy: Used to treat prostate cancer in various stages.
What to Know Before Your Procedure
Before undergoing any prostate procedure, it's critical to have a clear and open dialogue with your urologist. Ask questions like:
What exactly does this procedure involve?
What are the potential risks or side effects?
How will this affect my urinary and sexual function?
What will recovery look like?
Preparation Tips
1. Understand the Risks: Every prostate procedure carries some risk — especially of urinary incontinence or erectile dysfunction. These are common and manageable but should be discussed early.
2. Plan for Recovery: You may need time off work, help at home, and adjustments to your daily routine. Get support in place early.
3. Hydrate and Follow Instructions: Your doctor may advise you to stop certain medications, follow a special diet, or take antibiotics. Follow instructions closely to avoid complications.
Life After a Prostate Procedure: What to Expect
1. Urinary Incontinence is Common — and Manageable
Many men experience urinary leakage after prostate surgery, especially after prostatectomy. This is due to changes in the pelvic floor muscles and the removal of the prostate, which plays a role in urinary control.
There are different types of incontinence:
- Stress incontinence: Leakage when coughing, sneezing, or lifting.
- Urge incontinence: Sudden, intense urge to urinate followed by leakage.
Most men regain control within a few months, but some may deal with mild bladder leaks long-term. Choosing the right protection — like leakproof men’s underwear that’s discreet, washable, and designed for your body — can make all the difference in comfort and confidence.
2. Sexual Health Might Shift — But It’s Not Over
Erectile dysfunction (ED) is another common concern post-surgery or treatment. Some men may experience temporary or long-term changes in sexual function. There are solutions, including:
- Medications (like Cialis or Viagra)
- Injections or vacuum pumps
- Pelvic floor physical therapy
- Honest communication with your partner
Recovery is a journey, and sexual intimacy can still be part of it.
3. You May Feel Emotional — and That’s Normal
Dealing with a cancer diagnosis, surgery, or ongoing symptoms can trigger anxiety, frustration, or depression. You are not alone. Talk to someone — a therapist, your partner, or others who’ve been through it. Taking care of your mental health is as important as your physical recovery.
How to Support Your Recovery
- Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy: These specialists help strengthen the muscles that control urination and improve recovery.
- Stay Active: Light walking, as approved by your doctor, promotes circulation and healing.
- Eat Well: Foods high in fiber, antioxidants, and hydration support your body.
- Wear the Right Gear: Choose high-quality, incontinence underwear for men that feels like regular boxer briefs but protects against leaks. Look for:
- Odor control
- Leakproof layers
- Comfortable fit
- Washable and discreet design
At Wesley Ward, we built our product specifically for men navigating life after prostate surgery — because you deserve better than bulky pads or drugstore briefs.
Final Thoughts
Facing a prostate procedure isn’t easy — but it’s a step toward healing, longevity, and living life fully. Know your options. Prepare your body and your mind. And take confidence in knowing that while life may look different, it can still look good — and feel even better.
Wesley Ward is here to support you — discreetly, powerfully, and without compromise.
